Hello, everyone.
This is Enta.
The other day, I went out for drinks with a friend in Nagoya's Nishiki district (Nagoya's entertainment district).
After I eat, I usually go to a bar where there are girls, but,
Based on what was discussed there, what kinds of things do girls find annoying or irritating when customers do them?
That's how the conversation went.
If you’re thinking, “It’s a night job, so that’s just how it is, right?!”—well, that’s already workplace harassment, so be careful, lol.
They say they put up with it to some extent because they’re doing it strictly as a business (job), but,
Even so, he said this was the one thing that really annoyed him lol
The items I heard about were
1. Rubbing against my hand
2. Touching or resting their hand on your knee or leg
3. Putting an arm around my shoulders
4. Place your hands on your hips
5. He kisses me
6. Don't even touch it in the first place!
Normally, people don't really answer questions like this when they're asked, but,
That's me!
She seems like a total pushover, and she'll tell me anything... lol
Which one do you think is the most sexual harassment?
At a normal company, I think all of this would be considered sexual harassment, lol.
I listed the above examples of what people might think of when they hear “nightlife.”
It was the kind of answer that made me go, “Oh, I see!” but,
Apparently, 1 and 2 aren't a big deal at all. (It seems that level is within acceptable limits.)
The thing I hate the most isPlace your hand around No. 4's waistThat's what I've heard.
Apparently, after putting his hand around her waist, he just goes ahead and touches her butt...
To begin with, a "5" kiss is totally out of the question lol
There's no way a drunk old guy and a young girl would kiss, right!?
If you think about it normally, lol
She said, “There’s no way I’d hook up with some old guy whose breath stinks of booze!” LOL
Let’s make it clear that just because you’re paying or because she’s a hostess doesn’t mean she has to go that far with her service!
Are there any bosses or older guys like this around you?
I think he's a pretty crazy guy at work, too—what do you think?
There was another story that had me laughing my head off, but,
While singing karaoke, I changed the part of the song that mentions a woman's name to the hostess's name, and
Apparently, people are totally turned off by people who sing lol
Plus, I hear that the kind of people who do that ask, “How was that?” after they sing, lol.
No way~That's what they said, lol
Sexual harassment and abuse of power that occur in such a position of overwhelming power are absolutely unacceptable.
The construction industry, in particular, is eager to see more women join its ranks these days!
To create a construction industry where women can thrive, we need to eliminate sexual harassment and workplace bullying, don't we?
That’s why I’d like to work with them on an equal footing, as peers.
Even if we set aside physical strength, we're on equal footing in every other respect.
It would be great if women's participation could help make the construction industry cleaner and fairer, wouldn't it?
I want to move forward with innovation rather than clinging to outdated customs and practices.
See you later.
By the way, just as an aside, a pretty high percentage of women who work at night have boyfriends (or partners), right? lol
I'm saying I'm not here because it's part of my job! LOL
That's what he said!
