Kamusta kayong lahat.
Ito si Enta.
Noong isang araw, pumasok ako sa isang kumpanya para sumali sa isang partikular na samahan! lol
Sa totoo lang, inakala ko lang na marahil ay isang panayam iyon para makasali sa samahan.
Lumabas na mas kasiya-siya ito kaysa sa inaasahan ko, at nagkaroon kami ng magandang pag-uusap nang dalawang oras.
Sobrang saya ko kaya pag-uwi ko iniisip ko, 'Huwag na lang sumali sa samahan' (medyo inuna ko pa ang kariton kaysa sa kabayo, lol).
Isang bagay na naisip ko habang naroon ako ay,Ang mga taong hindi gusto ay hindi magugustuhan kahit saan sila magpunta.Kaya iyon na.
Ito ang unang pagkakataon na nakilala ko ang isang tao mula sa kumpanyang iyon, ngunit,
Habang nag-uusap kami tungkol sa iba't ibang bagay, napagtanto naming pareho pala naming kinamumuhian ang iisang tao! lol!!
Sa totoo lang, talagang maraming hindi gustong tao ang taong ito, lol.
Ah, hindi rin niya ako gusto, lol
Bakit ang mga taong hindi gusto saan man sila magpunta ay hindi pa rin gusto?
Iyon ang akala ko, kaya hinanap ko ito.
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Ano sa palagay mo?
Tingnan mo 'yan sa itaas at ihambing mo sa isang taong hindi mo matiis, lol
Mayroon ka ring ganoong mga tao sa iyong lugar ng trabaho, hindi ba?
Ganyang mga tao.
Sa tingin ko, makakakita ka ng mga taong ganito sa bawat kumpanya.
Gayunpaman, talagang wala akong magagawa para ayusin iyon.
Karaniwang kasabihan iyon, hindi ba?
Hindi mo mababago ang ibang tao, pero mababago mo ang sarili mo.Parang...
Sa halip na asahan ang iba na magbago, magbabago ako.
Kaya sa akin, iniiwasan ko lang talaga ang mga taong hindi ko gusto na parang salot, lol.
Medyo nakakainis, hindi ba?
Pero paano naman ang mga katrabaho mo?
Talagang hindi kaaya-aya makipagtulungan sa taong iyon, hindi ba?
Pero trabaho ko ito, kaya kailangan ko lang itong itabi at ituloy.
Sabihin nating, halimbawa, na hindi natin isinama ang taong iyon.
Maiisip mo ba kung ano ang mangyayari noon?
May isang tuntunin na kilala bilang 'Tuntunin ng 262', at
2: Mga Mataas na Nakatatamo
6: Mga karaniwang tao
2: Mga taong hindi makagawa nito
Sa ganitong sitwasyon, kung ang isang taong hindi makagawa nito ay maglaho, ang isang karaniwang tao ay magiging isang taong hindi makagawa nito.
Sa madaling sabi, nangangahulugan ito na nananatiling pareho ang proporsyon.
Pagkatapos ng lahat, kung may mga taong ganoon na hindi gusto, at iyon ang nagpapanatili ng balanse, ano sa palagay mo?
Walang magagawa tayo tungkol dito, kaya sa tingin ko iiwan na lang natin ito kung ano ito, ha? lol (Pati rin sa usaping organisasyonal.)
Gayunpaman, napakahirap talagang makipagtulungan sa isang masamang tao, kaya't kailangan may magsakripisyo, o…
Sa tingin ko, hindi ko talaga maintindihan kung bakit sinasabi ng mga tao na wala nang ibang pagpipilian kundi tiisin na lang ito.
Dumaan din ako noon sa isang yugto kung saan sobrang napapagod na ako sa pagtatrabaho sa site kasama ang isang nakatatandang katrabaho (o boss) na hindi ko gusto, lol.
Noong panahong iyon, hindi ko nagustuhan ang paraan ng paggawa ng mga bagay ng taong iyon at nakakainis ito sa akin, pero (nagpapalubag-loob sila sa mga nakatataas sa lokal na konseho at sa kumpanya)
Napansin ko na hangga't maayos kong ginagawa ang sarili kong trabaho, hindi ako gaanong napapansin ng mga tao gaya ng inaakala mo.
At hindi ko kailanman pinag-uusapan ang aking pribadong buhay; nagbibigay lang ako ng mga update sa trabaho at nananatiling nakikipag-ugnayan.
Pinapaalala nito sa akin na, sa paggawa ko noon, nagawa kong magtrabaho nang malinaw ang isip, nang hindi ako nakipag-ugnayan sa kanila sa labas ng trabaho.
Sa pagbabalik-tanaw ngayon, pakiramdam ko mas mahalaga na makipag-ayos sa mga taong hindi ko gusto kaysa tanggalin sila sa buhay ko.
Paraan ito ng pagharap sa mga bagay kahit na hindi mo sila gusto, hindi ba?
Hindi malulutas ang anumang bagay kung basta ko lang ilalabas ang aking damdamin, kaya ipagpapatuloy ko ang aking trabaho nang kalmado, walang emosyon, at masigasig.
At pagdating sa mga taong magkasundo kami, talagang napakasaya kong makatrabaho sila! (Ang kontrasteng iyon ang susi!)
Sa pamamagitan lang ng pagtatakda ng malinaw na hangganan, pagtatakda ng iyong sariling posisyon at pagpapatuloy sa iyong trabaho, mapapansin mong nagbabago ang iyong pananaw, hindi ba? ^^
Siguradong may isa o dalawang tao sa paligid mo na hindi mo gusto, kaya subukang kontrolin ang iyong emosyon at ituloy nang ligtas ang iyong trabaho.
Gayunpaman, kapag may gumawa ng bagay na nakakainis sa akin, sasabihin ko lang 'Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
Nakakainis talaga kapag may ganoong bagay na salungat sa aking mga pagpapahalaga, lol.
Magkita tayo mamaya.
